Welcome Northern Star
The bottom line? Here's exactly what it is: be prepared to disregard any/all opinions voiced when having important questions answered, because,
a) many J.W'.s either aren't aware of the Org's official response,
b) they will want to tell you what they think you'll want to hear - in order to keep you on board, or
c) their thinking on certain topics doesn't agree with the Org's.
As an elder said to me yesterday regarding J.W. topics on the internet, "I get it straight from the horse's mouth, by going to the Org's own website." He even went so far as to say that his body of elders will automatically tell someone to report a paedophile to the police - but would also ask Bethel for advice!
My response was to tell him that the Org will not tell him everything he has a right to know about, such as millions of dollars being handed out to paedophile victims, the A.R.C., etc.
A J.W.'s personal thoughts are neither here nor there - telephone the Branch Office/search the WT CD ROM, and get the official answers to your questions, then confront your study conductors with the real facts.
J.W.'s are generally Org-deluded or self-deluded - or both. Whatever the case, they accept it unquestioningly.